Wednesday, December 29, 2010

Christmas 2010

The day after our graduation (yes there is more on that to come)we decided to drive home to be with family for Christmas. We have been enjoying our time here in WI visiting friends and family.

This is the tree that the kids decorated in our apartment in MO.
The best picture I could get with our kids (minus Katy) and their cousin Evan.

Anna and Aunt Tara.
Claire was pretty excited to get loving family dolls.
We got the kids "The Chronicles of Narnia" on CD so they can listen to them in the car when we do all the traveling we need to do.


Katy was sleeping while we opened gifts so when she got up we had her open her gifts.  She really just wanted to eat the wrapping. :)
Her first baby doll.
Giving her big kisses!
Hope you all had a wonderful Christmas!

Saturday, December 25, 2010

Today

The Savior—yes, the Messiah, the Lord—has been born today in Bethlehem, the city of David
Luke 2:11 

Today we rejoice and remember our king!

Happy birthday sweet Jesus.

Monday, December 13, 2010

Living simply

As promised (awhile ago)I thought I would share about the simple living class that Bill and I had this semester. Going into it the only thing I really knew (I thought...I didn't know for sure) was that we were going to have to go without electricity, Internet, and make ALL foods from scratch for two weeks.  Well, that wasn't entirely true it was pretty close.  The rules were, for the duration of the class (2 weeks)
~we were not allowed to use any electric appliance
~we could still use the washer and dryer (because there is only so much you can do to simulate what life will be like overseas)
~lights had to be out by 10pm
~No surfing the web but we were allowed an hour a WEEK to check and respond to emails only.
~Had to make all meals from scratch...meaning no boxed foods (didn't mind that). We could use canned fruits and vegetables but nothing else that was in a can. For example if you wanted spaghetti sauce you had to make it yourself.  For that matter if you wanted to have spaghetti you had to make the noodles from scratch.
~We were supposed to try at least two new things that we had never made before. I made spaghetti sauce. However I did NOT want to bother to make my own noodles so James was the only one to eat the sauce until class was over (he eats sauce on his rice almost every day).
~No leaving campus except for Dr. appointments and Church. That meant no running to the grocery store.

Following these rules meant that I didn't get do blow dry or flat iron my hair for 2 weeks. We went to bed earlier every night because with the lights out and no Internet what is there to do? (Ha ha!) Meals took so much longer to make.  You have to have a plan.  You can't just go on a whim. I planned out my meals for the two weeks and bought most of what we needed ahead of time.  The day before our scratch cooking began they broke us up into groups. There were about ten people in each group. Each group was pared with another group of ten people.  One group took a walkie talkie radio and went in the downstairs part of the building and the other had their walkie talkie upstairs.  We had to take turns giving orders over the radio. There were two "supply buyers" from each group. Bill offered to be one of them for our group.  The purpose of the exercise was to give you a small taste of what ordering over the radio might feel like (this is the reason I didn't buy everything I needed ahead of time because I needed to have some things bought from the store for me.). This exercise also taught me something about Bill and shopping.  He does such an amazing jog getting the RIGHT products. I was surprised at how well he did (sorry honey) because every time I send him to the store he comes back with something different then what I asked for.  I learned that the key for getting him to buy the right ting is....drum roll...be specific.  It sounds so silly but it totally works.  If I give him all the exact details he needs he will get the right thing %100 of the time. Very helpful thing to have learned.  I digress...

During the two weeks the only homework we had was our scratch cooking.  I absolutely LOVED that! I really enjoyed being in the kitchen all the time.  I enjoyed making bread by hand. I had forgotten how fun that was since I always use my bread maker.  I found a recipe that our family loves and it is pretty easy (I will post soon).  It is a cool rise recipe. It doesn't take as long as other recipes I have used.  I also loved the fact that Bill was required to make four of our meals and had to bake a loaf of bread.  I have to say his bread (and this was his first time) turned out better then mine.  We may have discovered a hidden talent of his...I'm sure he wishes that to be undiscovered {grin}. One thing I realized during this time was just how MUCH I depend on appliances. Heating up leftovers takes so much more time when you can't use a microwave.

One of the course requirements was a weekend camping trip. It was optional for mother's and children.  I opted not to go. It was at the end of October and it was going to be really cold that weekend.  I was concerned about how we would keep Katy warm. Also Anna was having breathing issues, so we decided that I would stay home. Bill asked Ryan if he wanted to join him. Ryan was more then excited to go. There were no tents allowed on this trip.  You had to make your own shelter using tarps. (this is the new version of the six week jungle camp that they used to do...so glad we didn't go through training then. ha ha!) Although they didn't get much sleep they managed to stay warm.  They spent the weekend with the other students hiking (learning to use a compass) and learning how to butcher a live chicken (and eat it)! Meanwhile back on the home front while those two were off having adventures, I was home alone with four kids.  I was a little nervous about being a single parent for the weekend but it went really well. I took the kids to a harvest festival. We played games went on a hay ride and ate food.  Then at the end of the night we went to a  blue grass concert. We had a blast. I spent the weekend hanging out with the kiddos and having fun! Although we were really glad to have Bill and Ryan home again on Sunday.
This is the shelter that Bill built for them.

Bill and I decided that we were not meant to live a simple life. {grin!} I'm joking...sort of. :)  I didn't like being without internet.  However, I am sure we will be faced with it and we will get used to it.  It made me feel so out of the loop on what was going on back home with friends and family.  I know it sounds crazy because it was only two weeks, but in today's world a lot happens on the net in that amount of time. You can quickly get behind. I know I will get used to it, but it it made me think about how much I will miss that daily "knowing" and being in contact with loved ones.

All in all it was a good experience and we actually had fun along the way. I'm sure it was only a tiny glimpse of what life will be like for us in the future! :)

Tuesday, December 7, 2010

Crumbs on my back

I think when it really hit me was a few weeks ago.  We had to do a photo shoot with our graduating class...Like I actually had to be IN a picture. I had to go out and buy an outfit because almost 6 months postpartum I still can not fit into any of my clothes {sigh}. I found an outfit that I felt was somewhat flattering. I did my hair (which I don't always have time to do) and put make up on (never do). I thought I looked relatively okay.  However when we got the group picture back a few days later I was horrified. I guess because I am never in pictures and maybe I don't pay much attention when looking in the mirror.  Seeing that picture made me realize that I really need to get myself into gear. It was the motivation I needed. Also buying a scale (I hadn't been weighed since Kaitlyn was 6 weeks old) and seeing that I have only lost 2 pounds since her birth was another motivating factor. :)

I have never been good at sticking with any kind of work out plan or diet. I always start out with good intentions and then it quickly fizzles out. I want to work out but I let other things get in the way and I don't make the time.  In all honestly I really despise working out. It is HARD.  Especially right now when I am So out of shape.  I do LOVE how I feel after I work out though.  There is such a sense of accomplishment.  I have started a work out routine. I do have high hopes of sticking to it this time around. There are two reasons for that. First, I have never been this heavy this long after having a baby. I have always just lost the weight easily (with the exception of my first baby...took me a long time to loose weight), but not this time.  Maybe it's because I am getting older? Second, I realize I am getting older and the need for me to get/stay in shape increases. I have a long family history of health issues (Diabetes being one of them).

I have thought about this a lot. Maybe years ago it would have just been about me loosing weight and looking/feeling good. While I can't lie and say that isn't something that I still desire, the need for me to live a healthy life is what is driving me. Bill and I have made a decision to walk a difficult but, oh so rewarding path, so for the sake of what God has called us to I want to be healthy and strong. Exercise is just one more tool for me to use towards that goal.  The goal is not self preservation, it's about being a good steward of what God has given me. I know that my body is a temple for the Holy Spirit so I need to do what I can to take care of this body that I have right now.

I have had to start slow. It has been a long time since I have done anything. I tried to start a routine a few months ago but because of school and the amount of homework I had (and the fact that I had a newborn who still got up at night) I wasn't able to do it for more then a week.  I was just too exhausted and lacked the motivation to try and force it.  Life has started to slow down a bit these days so this was a good time to start back up. The first time I worked out I was so so sore.  I had to wait 3 days before I could work out again. I thought I could just push past the pain but Bill told me (from his past experience of weight lifting) that I should wait and let my muscles heal. The next time I worked out I only had to wait two days, and now I am up to the point where I can work out every day. :)

I know it's going to be tempting to quit, especially when I don't see the results that I want. It is going to be tempting to skip when I feel tired and just don't.want.to.do.it! But, I know I can do it this time and I need to.  I don't want to let this become something I obsess about or worry about, it just needs to be apart of my daily life. If that makes any sense.

So while I have crumbs on my back tonight (from working out on my dirty floor of course) at least they're not on my face! {grin!} 

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